1. What is a vibrator?

A vibrator is an electronic toy that stimulates through vibrations. There are models for clitoral , vaginal , and anal stimulation – from clitoral vibrators to G-spot models. Modern devices are usually made of body-safe, easy-to-clean silicone.

2. The advantages of a vibrator during sex

• Targeted stimulation: Supplements penetration with precise clitoral or G-spot stimulation.
• More variety: solo, prelude or during the act – many possibilities.
• Communication: Toys open up conversations about pace, pressure, favorite zones.
• Self-determination: You control the intensity and patterns – perfect for different preferences.
• Comfort: In combination with lubricant, friction is reduced and sex is often more pleasant.

"The combination of penetration and vibration is a game-changer for many."

Mini anecdote: Lisa loves the cowgirl position, Max prefers the missionary position. A small clitoral vibrator brought them both to the same conclusion – she controls the rhythm, he helps with the angle. Win-win. 💫

3. Sex with a vibrator: Here's how it works

1. Preparation: Wash hands, charge toy, and prepare water-based lubricant .
2. Start slowly: Begin with low intensity, pay attention to signals.
3. Get feedback: Short, clear agreements (“a little firmer”, “slower”).
4. Vary: Change positions, angles, and patterns – only then increase intensity.
5. Safety: Do not switch from anal to vaginal stimulation without cleaning/a fresh condom.

Pro tip: Do a quick "check-in" after 2-3 minutes. A simple question like "How comfortable?" keeps the mood and a sense of security high. 🙂

4. Popular vibrator types (with examples)

You can find more options in our vibrator category .

5. Use sex toys in a variety of ways

• Solo: Explore tempo and patterns, find favorite zones.
• Foreplay: "Awaken" sensitive zones – neck, inner thighs, perineum.
• Couple sex: Place a clitoral vibrator on the clitoris during penetration.
• Bathtub/Shower: Use only waterproof toys. Dry thoroughly afterwards.
• Remote control/app: Alternates who controls – strengthens intimacy and trust.

For more inspiration: Guide: Sex toys for beginners & professionals .

6. Stimulation & Orgasm

• Clitoris: Short, gentle impulses – preferably starting closer to the pubic mound.
• G-spot: "Come here" movement + medium vibrations.
• Combination: Penetration + clitoral vibrator = double stimulation.

Breathing & pelvic floor: Deep exhalation + conscious relaxation can facilitate orgasm. A relaxed pelvic floor allows vibrations to penetrate "deeper".

7. Sex toys for shared experiences

• Couple toys: Narrow, flexible shapes for the nude.
• Wall massagers: Powerful vibes for outdoors – e.g. Fun Factory VIM .
• Communication: Safe Word light: "more", "stop", "change".

A little ritual: a 30-second briefing before the start ("What do you wish for today?"). This creates a sense of security and makes you braver. 🧡

8. Lubricant & Material Compatibility

Many manufacturers advise against combining silicone-based gel with silicone toys, as it can damage the surface. Always check the manufacturer's instructions.

Important: For latex condoms: do not use oil-based lubricants; water-based or silicone-based gels are recommended. (Source: NHS ). Furthermore, professional societies recommend water-based or silicone-based lubricants; oil-based lubricants can cause irritation and weaken condoms ( ACOG ).

Suitable selection in our lubricant category .

9. Sex positions with a vibrator: Tips & tricks

Tip: A slim toy with an ergonomic shape makes positioning easier during sex. If vibrations are "too much," reduce the intensity or switch to pulse/wave patterns.

10. Hygiene & Care

1. Immediately after use: Clean with lukewarm water and mild soap.
2. Protect electronics: Do not dive unless explicitly stated to be waterproof.
3. Drying: Dab with a lint-free cloth.
4. Storage: Keep dry and protected from light – ideally in a fabric bag/box.
5. When changing body area/partner: Clean or put on a new condom.

Bonus: Toy cleaners are handy for quick cleanups; however, they do not replace washing with soap and water.

11. Buyer's guide: What you should pay attention to

• Material: Body-friendly silicone, soft surface, minimal seams.
• Shape & size: Suitable for the desired zone (placement vs. G-spot).
• Motor skills: steps, patterns, quiet operation, runtime.
• Operation: Intuitive buttons, lock function for travel.
• Waterproof: Practical for bathrooms and easy cleaning.
• Charging method: Magnetic/USB; battery level clearly visible.

Browse through our vibrator category or check out Fun Factory highlights .

12. Top Brands & Product Inspiration

• Fun Factory LADY BI – Rabbit for double stimulation (product details)
• BIG BOSS XL – powerful G-spot vibrator (product details)
• VOLTA – external lay-on vibrator for the product
• MEA – quiet pressure wave stimulator for the product
• VIM – powerful wall massager (product details)

13. Myths & Troubleshooting

"Vibrators make you numb."

No. Nerves don't permanently "unlearn" how to handle things. If something is too intense for a short time, take a break or reduce the intensity.

"Vibrations are always loud."

Modern toys are significantly quieter. Before buying, check: motor quality, housing damping, and test reports.

"Using lubricant makes everything slippery – that's annoying."

The right amount is key. Start with a small dab, spread it on the toy and entry area. Reapply as needed.

Common stumbling blocks & solutions

• Too intense: Use a pattern instead of continuous vibration, lift the toy slightly.
• No room during the act: Choose a slim lay-on model; adjust position slightly (side rider).
• Friction: More lubricant, slower movement, change angle.
• Tension: Take 3 deep breaths + relax your pelvic floor.

FAQ – Frequently Asked Questions

Sources (compact)

• Regarding condoms and lubricant compatibility: NHS – Condoms .
• Basic information and recommendations on lubricants: ACOG – Vaginal Dryness & Lubes .